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I’ll be celebrating my birthday soon and here are my top 10 great wishes and my top 10 real wishes:

Top 10 Great Wishes:
1. European tour (again) this time with the whole family
2. A new Car
3. Initial D arcade for my Railey
4. Spa like CR for our new house
5. My own coffe and bakeshop
6. Take up culinary studies
7. Discover a new and great tasting recipe and be famous all over the world
8. Be at least 3 inches slimmer on my waist and get 40lbs less on my weight
9. Help a lot of people
10.Meet my 2 angels in my dream

Top 10 Real Wishes
1. SLR Camera
2. MAC Make up
3. She Uemura falsies
4. Hello Kitty Make Up kit
5. Escada Moon Sparkle Perfume
6. Gucci Bag
7. ODM Watch (to add for my collection)
8. Oakley eyeglass frame
9. 1 day unlimited shopping (hahhaha)
10. Enough time to sleep and rest

It’s a Sunday today and we would normally go out and eat lunch in a good reastaurant. But because of some reasons, I decided to just stay home and cook for us. Cook something that would make us feel we are havin a fine dining far from our comfort place. In an instant, I decided to have an Itallian menu. Since I have a left over of spaghetti sauce, i thought of doing another dish.. I made Grilled Pepper Chicken (my own recipe). Here it is….

Grilled Pepper Chicken is very easy to do. First I rub calamansi juice with salt and pepper, after 10 mins I cooked it in a pre-heated oven for about 20 mins or until the chicken is about to cook. Then I poured barbeque sauce all over the chicken, turning it upside down once in a while…Then I added more pepper and a little brown sugar to make it more tasty. then wait for couple more minutes…then there you go….tasting it is the best part of my cooking. I served it together with the spaghetti to have an Itallian feel of it…heheheh

It’s been quite some time when i last updated my blog…lot of happy things happened and also some sad parts but i am sorry i forgot already. maybe my busy schedule weakened my memory…well, that’s what blog is for, isn’t it? hmmmm, i’m now 4 mos preggy with my supposedly 4th child…. unfortunately, if God pleases, this is just my 2nd alive child. we are still hoping and praying that this time, he will lend us an innocent life and so to prove him we are worthy parents. we are really glad for having been blessed with another life inside my womb, it only means that god still cares for us and answers our prayers…I know he always does….but hopefully, hopefully this time, it’s a happy ending for my 9-month journey…

If you are already married, it doesn’t mean that you won’t be having single friends anymore. You may still have single friends around you with whom you are very much close with. There is fairly nothing wrong with that of course, but sometimes, a single friend can cause trouble. It may be that the person is jealous that you are married and he or she is not, or it may be that your friend is jealous of all the time you spend with your spouse. Here is an exerpt of what i have read in one blog on how a single friend might affect your marriage with your spouse:

Either way, don’t let the jealous single friend create problems between you and your mate. You can, and should, still go out with your friends sometimes, just be careful not to do anything that gives your spouse suspicions. For example, you probably don’t want to be hanging out in the club that your ex frequents, especially without your spouse. Making your husband or wife doubtful, suspicious, or jealous is not good for your relationship.

Your friend may also talk ugly about your spouse at times. If you get the least bit frustrated and complain, your friend is likely to not only agree, but exaggerate your mate’s fault’s as well. Don’t fall into the trap of seeing your spouse through an envious acquaintance’s eyes.

It’s also not a good idea to share too much private information with this kind of person. It has a way of coming back to bite you. The pal might actually use it against you to get you and your spouse into an argument. It’s been done. Then, your pal will undoubtedly say, "Let’s get out of here." You’ll most likely regret it.

To further emphasize the thought, it is not a sin to have a single friends, definitely not a wrong practice in maintaining a relationship with single friends while being married to the person you loved dearly. You just have to make sure which ones are your real friends. =)

As I browse over millions and millions of blog articles all over the internet, the topic on "cheating" caught my attention. needless to say, I’m a married woman, I am a mother, and a person. We may always encounter problems as an individual, as a wife or as a mom and the top most crisis in our lives is cheating. If a heart attack is fatal in human because it leads to death, cheating if fatal to a relationship for it leads to an end of a harmonious relationship. Insensitvity of a partner is one great concern in cheating because the partner committing this fatal reason for a break up doesn’t even care or take notice of what must the offending side may feel.  This realization is the truth. Be it your partner’s fault or other influences in your lives, it still is a cheating when committed…According to one article I’ve read. He stated what is cheating in an itemized form.  Here are some tips on how u may actually consider that u are being cheated by your partner:

1. Thinking of someone else while having sex with your partner
2. Buying secret gifts for someone else
3. Sending secret texts to someone else
4. Telling someone of the opposite sex all your secrets and your feelings about your partner but without touching them at all
5. Kissing someone else passionately
6. Buying flowers for someone else but not telling your partner
7. Buying flowers for someone else who your partner does not like and not telling your partner

It was not mentioned here that cheating is also when trying to attempt of another party to ruin a relationship and your partner gave in to it? hmmmm??? 

Forgiveness for me is a gift u must give yourself. it is a very simple act of kindness towards somebody. It is something you do to someone even if not being asked from you. Because through forgiveness, you can be free from all worries. Even you have hurt someone or you were hurt by someone else, forgiveness will come between you. encouraging yourself to forgive is like encouraging yourself to a stress free life. and when you forgive, you must forgive all the way. REmember it’s a decision you have to make, to forgive and be free, or to forgive and let go…

never question god’s will when u’re in trying times. he has made these scenarios in ur life to make u stronger. It would challenge you in anyway and will make u closer in faith. whatever consequences there is for you. accept the fact that there’s nobody that is free from trials.

In just a snap of a finger, my life has changed. my everyday routine turned from a working mom to a full time mom AGAIN! but i’d rather be who i am now than workng 4am and not seeing my kid wake up. This time i feel so contented that i do the things i used to do when he was a baby. change his diapers, bathe him, feed him, play with him, and the most part of it was teaching him new things. He is a happy kid. what he only wants is car, cars, and more cars. And i’m so happy that my kid knows what he wants. He is a very independent kid at 2 and a half years old. On my part, as a mom of course i love his attitude like that because it is something hard to teach to a growing up kid, to be INDEPENDENT. My kid has his own preference of food, toys, cravings, stuffs, even clothes. he is the one choosing for himself andmind you, his preference are all fantastic ones. Hehehe, my kid is now a big boy. i hope he will continue to be a good boy when he grow up.

I’d like to say "THANK YOU". Thank you saan? well a lot of things. kasi in my life there has been a lot of troubled times, a lot of problems and issues, trials and pains but still I survived. Still standing tall and proud…why?  because i have my friends around, i have my family, my son and my hubby. well, it may not be a perfect marriage for me but i can say it’s a happy marriage. we have ups and downs at times, but we stand firm together, survive together and continue our lives TOGETHER! thanks to my friends if not with them i wouldn’t realize how lucky i am now. they made me strong and realize that life isn’t always a "box of chocolate". And they even made me accept those things not perfect for me and love it just the way God wanted. and now, those "imperfection" are very much appreciated. Thanks to those who contributed heartaches and pains to me, for without them, I don’t know if my life would lead me to this kind of situation where I am now. very happy and contented…those pains made me stronger and made me the best person I can be. Though there may still be moments when i need someone to cry on, but there is this one person, though "masungit", he’s always beside me comforting me and proving to me that i made the right choice of choosing him, and to live a life of infinity with him. he’s my strength, my love, my inspiration, my EVERYTHING. Thanks to him he has given me 2 angels to watch over me and a bright child who gives color to our daily lives. He’s one great person I can be proud of…..if not because of my past, i would have let this perfect love pass by me…. thanks I’ve gone through everything in my life…becuase of it, i can say that i’m a fulfilled woman, mother and WIFE…I love it…love everything happened to my…THANKS!